"I want DADDY!"
Anyhow, a few short hours after I wrote about a sweet and precious moment Marley and Rudy shared while Beanie had blood drawn, Todd was presenting at a school committee meeting and therefore missing dinner and bedtime, and Marley and I had a screaming fight that went like this:
Me: "Just have a few more bites. You can decide how many you need to be healthy."
Marley: "NONE!"
Me: "You need more than that. You can decide, but if you can't, I'll choose for you, and I choose...seven."
Marley: "That's too much! [whine, whine, moan, moan] I only want you to say one bite of each thing."
Me, scoping out her plate: "Okay. That's fine. One bite of each thing. Four bites."
Marley: "NO! Don't say four bites! Say one bite of each thing!"
Me, starting to lose it: "Okay. [sigh] One bite of each thing."
Marley: [whimper, whine, moan, complain]
Me, following through on an earlier promise: "Marley, I'm not going to listen to you whine. Go to your room and calm down. Forget the bites."
Marley: "Noooooo!"
Me, eventually: "GO TO YOUR ROOM!"
Moments later, Marley screaming and crying at the top of the stairs: "I WANT DADDY! [hiccup] DADDY! [wail, scream] I want DAD-DEEEEEEE!"
Me: [really needing a glass of red wine (Don't worry. Honestly, just one glass.)]
I know that Todd is a hot commodity because he's scarce, especially after four days spent across the country. And I know that I'm Boring Old Mommy who follows through on the rules and establishes the routines and is uptight by nature anyways. But I still had an angry little heartache for those moments when I was clearly unwanted, probably even hated, by my Bean. And I know it will get worse as she gets even older. I started reading Queen Bees, way early, I know, after I heard Tina Fey talk about with with Andy Cohen in a recent interview, and. Oh boy.
On the bright side, at least Rudy and I are still in the picture Marley drew for Todd upon his homecoming. And I like that in her recent renditions of us, we always have our hands raised like we're witnessing in a tent revival.
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